Enable a Xfce/Xubuntu Remote Desktop, Vino, Desktop Sharing

http://www.ehow.com/how_6980234_enable-xubuntu-remote-desktop.html
http://askubuntu.com/questions/71309/how-do-i-enable-remote-desktop-connection-on-xubuntu-11-10

Input the following line to install vino:

sudo apt-get install vino

Input the following line to configure vino:

vino-preferences

Follow the onscreen instructions to make changes to your remote desktop sharing preferences.
Go to XFCE settings manager and select "session and startup" and "application auto start"
Click Add and Enter the following command to start the vino server:

/usr/lib/vino/vino-server